So my hubs wants more Sex.
Turns out, he’s just like most married men in America.
Yep, the #1 complaint I get from husbands is they’re not getting enough nooky from their wife.
So I ask them, “When’s the last time you made plans to share special time with your wife?”
If they look at me confused, I manspeak: “No plans, no panties.”
When you make plans to make your partner feel special – just like you did before you ever had sex with them – you’re likely to get more sex.
For your convenience, I’ve broken down this complex formula into 3 easy steps:
- Spend a minimum of 5 minutes thinking about how to make your spouse feel special. If stuck after 5 minutes, call her best friend for ideas.
- Make plans accordingly.
- Implement plan.
Warning: This might involve calling a babysitter, making reservations, and texting your partner to be ready at 7 on Friday night wearing something sexy. Or simply pack a picnic, spread a blanket on the living room floor, and give a massage using SENSE Stimulating Body Oil to get those desire juices flowing.
Though these tasks may seem monumental, I KNOW most men can succeed in getting more sex if they make more plans to spend ‘adult’ time with their spouse.
I see it happen every month during Date Nite Special.
“We’ve been together 12 years and this is the most intimate we’ve ever been,” said a mom of two during last Date Nite Special. And from the looks of them during dinner, I’m pretty sure their night had a happy ending.
Which brings me back to my hubs – that lucky guy married to the sexologist who takes him on a date night special every month.
Well, while I was writing this message, he texted me: ”Hey babe. Hired a sitter for Saturday. Hope you can make an 8 pm dinner reservation at Phuc Yea – that Asian spot you’ve been talking about.”
F$@k Yea I can make that!
Dr. Sonjia (Sun-Ji-YA)