Sexless Marriage

Sexless Marriage “To avoid sex, I always make sure he’s asleep before going to bed.” I’ve heard more variations of that sentence than I can count. But don’t be fooled. It’s not always women who avoid sex. Many men have confided that they intentionally fall asleep on the couch to avoid intimacy with their woman. […]

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Sex and Cheating: Should you tell?

Sex and Cheating: Should you tell? Sometimes, you should lie to your lover. Was your ex-boyfriend bigger than me? Was your last girlfriend’s body better than mine? Am I the best lover you’ve ever had No, No, and Yes is exactly how you should answer these questions, whether or not it’s the truth. If you […]

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Date Nite Special

Date Nite Special Most people smile when they find out what I do for a living. When the giggling stops, their voice usually drops to a whisper while they ask for advice about their intimate situation. That’s when I smile, because it makes me giddy when people realize they have the power to improve their […]

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Talking About Sex with a Doctor

Talking About Sex with a Doctor Some sex problems need a medical doctor, not a sexologist. Which is why the University of Miami’s Chief of General Medicine joins us today to answer audience questions. What medical issues change the taste of ‘sexual fluids?’ Why do so many married women hate having sex? How do you […]

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Sex After Childbirth: Booty after Baby

Sex After Childbirth: Booty after Baby Childbirth changes everything. Especially sex. Last weekend, while my baby was supposed to be napping, my hubby attempted to seduce me. Just as things were heating up, our bedroom door slammed open, smashing the door knob into the opposing wall. Apparently an overzealous 3 year old opens doors with […]

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Sex Peer Pressure

Peer pressure impacts adults too. Especially, pressure to penetrate. “My friend often has sex immediately after meeting an eligible man and when it doesn’t work out, she’s left feeling devastated. But she does it over and over again.” A colleague disclosed this situation to me last week, and it’s something I hear about far too […]

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How to Plan a Great First Date

No plans, No panties! That’s what I tell men who complain about not getting enough sex from their lady. And that’s also what I tell women who wonder why they don’t want sex with their man anymore. You see, women love a man with a plan. And if you plan something special for us, well […]

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Hypnosis and Sex Problems

Am I doing this right?  Guess what? We’re all scared Last V-day, my girlfriend really wanted to turn her husband on, so she decided to role-play. After perusing my ‘costumes’, she settled on the long red wig and I gave her some tips for getting into character.  But when it came time to perform, she […]

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Opening Act

What’s your new year’s resolution? If you’re human, it probably has something to do with improving relationships. Because relationships rule our lives. Relationships with money, work, friends, family, lovers. While most could stand to improve several of these relationships, the top priority is almost always romance. People in relationships want more understanding, more happiness, more […]

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