Date Nite Special

Date Nite Special Most people smile when they find out what I do for a living. When the giggling stops, their voice usually drops to a whisper while they ask for advice about their intimate situation. That’s when I smile, because it makes me giddy when people realize they have the power to improve their […]

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How to Plan a Great First Date

No plans, No panties! That’s what I tell men who complain about not getting enough sex from their lady. And that’s also what I tell women who wonder why they don’t want sex with their man anymore. You see, women love a man with a plan. And if you plan something special for us, well […]

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The Sex Conversation No One Wants to Have…

What happens to a woman after a night with Peyton Manning or Bill Cosby?  I’m talking about her sex life, her future love affairs, her future relationships. How does one establish a satisfying sexual relationship after they’ve been sexually violated? This is an important question, especially for a University professor like me because 1 out […]

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The Hook-Up: When your Ex Finds you on Facebook

What if this happened to you?  Ladies, imagine this. You’re dating a guy who’s been chasing you for a while. You recently started sleeping together and things are starting to get serious. You’ve met his family and have started thinking, ‘this could really work out’. You can imagine being with him for a long time. […]

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Sex Soulmates (Part 2), Don’t Be Scared!

Ever scared someone away?  Have you ever felt like you scared someone into never calling you again? I’m talking about a situation where you really like someone, tell them, and then they vanish into thin air. So disrespectful, right? And yet it happens every day. At the time, it may seem like a confusing mystery […]

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