Stimulate Sexual Desire with this Smell

Attract Men, Repel Bugs In 2011 I went through a ‘finding myself’ phase. I was 37, just got married, and living with my husband for the first time. I did a lot of funky stuff trying to figure out who I was and who I wanted to be. It seemed every time I figured it […]

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Spend Valentine’s with ME!

Spend Valentine’s Day with ME! Pretty please… I’m confident that WORLD PEACE would be easily achieved if everyone was sexually satisfied. And what better time than February to ponder how your sex life could be improved? Especially since Hallmark is gonna force you to think about it anyway. That’s why I’m trying to hang out […]

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Role Playing: Make Sexual Fantasies Come True

Samba with me Did your lover climax when they opened your holiday gift? Probably not. Because watches, shoes, and smart TVs rarely ignite orgasms. So instead of spending dough on a traditional gift, I role-played my man’s ultimate sensual fantasy. In public. And if you think my little stunt STIMULATED some sexy action in his […]

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Nasty Women Vote: Hillary Clinton, Sex and Politics

Nasty Women Need Love Too What’s the toughest romantic challenge for Nasty Women? Figuring out when to act like a man or act like a lady. We all heard about the old days. Women weren’t allowed to work so they had no way to support themselves. Most didn’t leave home until they got married and […]

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Penis Pictures: How To Turn Women Off with Your Penis

Penis Pictures: How To Turn Women Off with Your Penis Men like sexy pictures of their lovers. But, guess what? The feeling is not reciprocal. Unless we’re planning to embarrass you, women don’t want pictures of your private parts. Look guys, we know you want to see an image of our behinds with barely anything […]

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Sex and Cheating: Should you tell?

Sex and Cheating: Should you tell? Sometimes, you should lie to your lover. Was your ex-boyfriend bigger than me? Was your last girlfriend’s body better than mine? Am I the best lover you’ve ever had No, No, and Yes is exactly how you should answer these questions, whether or not it’s the truth. If you […]

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Date Nite Special

Date Nite Special Most people smile when they find out what I do for a living. When the giggling stops, their voice usually drops to a whisper while they ask for advice about their intimate situation. That’s when I smile, because it makes me giddy when people realize they have the power to improve their […]

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Sex Peer Pressure

Peer pressure impacts adults too. Especially, pressure to penetrate. “My friend often has sex immediately after meeting an eligible man and when it doesn’t work out, she’s left feeling devastated. But she does it over and over again.” A colleague disclosed this situation to me last week, and it’s something I hear about far too […]

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How to Plan a Great First Date

No plans, No panties! That’s what I tell men who complain about not getting enough sex from their lady. And that’s also what I tell women who wonder why they don’t want sex with their man anymore. You see, women love a man with a plan. And if you plan something special for us, well […]

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The Sex Conversation No One Wants to Have…

What happens to a woman after a night with Peyton Manning or Bill Cosby?  I’m talking about her sex life, her future love affairs, her future relationships. How does one establish a satisfying sexual relationship after they’ve been sexually violated? This is an important question, especially for a University professor like me because 1 out […]

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