Sex Sense with Dr. SonjiaDo you remember the amazing scene in the movie “9 1/2 Weeks” with Kim Bassinger. SO sexy. I actually cover that in my book as well. Keep on reading. I’m going to tell you how to create a night of sexual tension and passion by stimulating all of your lover’s senses except vision. If you do everything as outlined below, your man will be more excited than you’ve seen in a long time! Start off by making sure you have all the special ingredients prepared before the big night. Here’s your shopping list:
1. Lavender candles
2. One can of pumpkin pie filling
3. One cinnamon bun
4. A couple of tablespoons of melted chocolate
5. Crystallized ginger (available in most healthy
6. Vanilla bubble bath
7. Loofah sponge
8. Body scrub
9. The song Orgasm by Prince (I’ll explain later)
After you’ve got the goods, select a special night to seduce your lover. The whole stimulating process won’t take more than an hour, but the sexualaftermath could go on for much longer, so plan accordingly. To prepare on the designated night, put a small amount of the pumpkin pie filling in a microwave safe dish and make sure it’s warmed up. Cut the cinnamon bun into small pieces and cover some with melted chocolate. Put a few spoons of honey into a bowl. Light the lavender-scented candles and beready to run a hot bath with vanilla bubbles. Put your music player in the bathroom and make sure the player is cued up to the Orgasm song by Prince. On the selected evening, surprise your partner by whipping out a blindfold and tying it around their eyes. I suggest you test it on yourself first to make sure the blindfold really blocks vision completely. Because if your special someone can see but is pretending not to, they won’t be forced to rely on their other senses—which is pretty much the wholepoint of this exercise. SMELL Once the blindfold is secure, lead your lover to a comfortable place to sit down near the lavender candles that should already be burning. The smell of lavender is known to get people in the mood for sex. When your lover is comfortably seated, place the small dish of warm pumpkin pie filling under their nose and ask, “Does this smell good?” Not only will your lover say, “Yes,” but the mixture of smells will really get their sexual engine revved up. Why does it work?
Once the blindfold is secure, lead your lover to a comfortable place to sit down near the lavender candles that should already be burning. The smell oflavender is known to get people in the mood for sex. When your lover is comfortably seated, place the small dish of warm pumpkin pie filling under their nose and ask, “Does this smell good?” Not only will your lover say, “Yes,” but the mixture of smells will really get their sexual engine revved up. Why does it work? Something about smelling these scents together makes blood rush to the penis. The Smell and Taste SEX IN SOUTH BEACH: LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX
Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago found that men who smelled a combination of lavender and pumpkin pie experienced an increase in-penile blood flow by 40 percent. The same group also found that the smell of cinnamon buns, doughnuts and black licorice resulted in a 31.5 percent increase in penile blood-flow. Good stuff to keep in mind,
especially if your sweetie isn’t a big fan of pumpkin pie.
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