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	<title>Comments for Dr. Sonjia | America’s Sex Educator</title>
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	<description>Author of Sex in South Beach &#124; Founder of South Beach School of Sensual Satisfaction</description>
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		<title>Comment on Anti-intimacy Addicts by Dr. Sonjia</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/anti-intimacy-addicts/#comment-120</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Sonjia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 13:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your thoughtful feedback James! You are right on target - Sex without Intimacy - is increasingly common. Chapter 8 of my book is called &#039;Fat-Free sex&#039; and it explores this issue and the implications that sex without intimacy has on relationship satisfaction.  check it out and let me know what you think! 
Sonjia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your thoughtful feedback James! You are right on target &#8211; Sex without Intimacy &#8211; is increasingly common. Chapter 8 of my book is called &#8216;Fat-Free sex&#8217; and it explores this issue and the implications that sex without intimacy has on relationship satisfaction.  check it out and let me know what you think!<br />
Sonjia</p>
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		<title>Comment on South Beach &#8216;Sex Project&#8217; by Dr. Sonjia</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/contact-me/south-beach-sex-project/#comment-119</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Sonjia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 13:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Sean!  I added you to the email list and invited you to the party!  My friend just came back from Italy and I think you two should meet.  I&#039;ll call you and set something up soon!

Take care,
Sonjia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Sean!  I added you to the email list and invited you to the party!  My friend just came back from Italy and I think you two should meet.  I&#8217;ll call you and set something up soon!</p>
<p>Take care,<br />
Sonjia</p>
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		<title>Comment on where&#8217;s Sonjia? by Dr. Sonjia</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/wheres-sonjia/#comment-118</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Sonjia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 13:06:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Paul!  We enjoyed meeting you too - good luck with your upcoming marriage and hope to see you soon in South Beach!
Sonjia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Paul!  We enjoyed meeting you too &#8211; good luck with your upcoming marriage and hope to see you soon in South Beach!<br />
Sonjia</p>
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		<title>Comment on where&#8217;s Sonjia? by Paul Wagner</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/wheres-sonjia/#comment-117</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul Wagner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 18:04:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great to meet you and your husband last week at The Catalina.  I enjoyed your book on the flight home to Portland!

Best,

Paul</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great to meet you and your husband last week at The Catalina.  I enjoyed your book on the flight home to Portland!</p>
<p>Best,</p>
<p>Paul</p>
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		<title>Comment on Anti-intimacy Addicts by James C</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/anti-intimacy-addicts/#comment-110</link>
		<dc:creator>James C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 14:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Unless and until the American Psychiatric Association recognized sex &quot;addiction&quot; as a real psychological disorder you really need to approach the subject the way they now look at it. This is, that hyper sexuality is a symptom of other, APA recognized psychological disorders and not a disorder itself. The success in treating people who are hyper sexual depends on a clear understanding of these underlying root causes. Without this understanding therapists tend to only treat the &quot;scratch&quot; and not the &quot;itch&quot; and relapse rates remain high.

The more interesting topic of discussion would be about those who are not hyper sexual but do prefer sex without intimacy. Often, in men especially, a discomfort with intimacy can be so serious and anxiety inducing that they often suffer from sexual dysfunctions during partner sex which further exacerbate their inability to have enjoyable sex within an intimate relationship and instead they can only function normally in sexual situations where they can keep their partner at arms length.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unless and until the American Psychiatric Association recognized sex &#8220;addiction&#8221; as a real psychological disorder you really need to approach the subject the way they now look at it. This is, that hyper sexuality is a symptom of other, APA recognized psychological disorders and not a disorder itself. The success in treating people who are hyper sexual depends on a clear understanding of these underlying root causes. Without this understanding therapists tend to only treat the &#8220;scratch&#8221; and not the &#8220;itch&#8221; and relapse rates remain high.</p>
<p>The more interesting topic of discussion would be about those who are not hyper sexual but do prefer sex without intimacy. Often, in men especially, a discomfort with intimacy can be so serious and anxiety inducing that they often suffer from sexual dysfunctions during partner sex which further exacerbate their inability to have enjoyable sex within an intimate relationship and instead they can only function normally in sexual situations where they can keep their partner at arms length.</p>
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		<title>Comment on South Beach &#8216;Sex Project&#8217; by Sean Golden</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/contact-me/south-beach-sex-project/#comment-109</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean Golden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 00:09:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, I met you and your husband at a pizza place on Alton a couple weeks ago,(extra chicken lol) I think I might come  May 2 to your event , 

Thanks

Sean

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, I met you and your husband at a pizza place on Alton a couple weeks ago,(extra chicken lol) I think I might come  May 2 to your event , </p>
<p>Thanks</p>
<p>Sean</p>
<p>850-512-5154</p>
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		<title>Comment on Souped-up Sperm by SonjiaK</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/souped-up-sperm/#comment-92</link>
		<dc:creator>SonjiaK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 18:44:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks Jason! please come back and visit soon!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks Jason! please come back and visit soon!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Faucet of Feelings by SonjiaK</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/faucet-of-feelings/#comment-91</link>
		<dc:creator>SonjiaK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 18:43:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Jayna!  Please come back and visit often!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Jayna!  Please come back and visit often!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Erogenous Entertainment by SonjiaK</title>
		<link>http://drsonjia.com/erogenous-entertainment/#comment-90</link>
		<dc:creator>SonjiaK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 18:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Drummon! I really appreciate your fedback - hope you come back soon!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Drummon! I really appreciate your fedback &#8211; hope you come back soon!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Erogenous Entertainment by SonjiaK</title>
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		<dc:creator>SonjiaK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 18:42:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks - please keep reading and coming back for more!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks &#8211; please keep reading and coming back for more!</p>
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