Back it Up (Sex & the Spine)

Does your back hurt? Mine does and I’m not alone. Between 80-90% of Americans from suffer from back problems at some point in their life and it often impacts action in the bedroom. Back pain makes it harder to back it up or push it forward vigorously between the sheets. Such challenges cause people to […]

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Anti-intimacy Addicts

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L85l9WJv510 Are people really addicted to sex? Dr. David Ley doesn’t think so. And I completely agree and disagree. In his new book, the Myth of Sex Addiction, Ley argues that the sex addict label mischaracterizes male sexuality, “as dangerous and unhealthy and destroys our ability to hold people accountable for their behaviors.” Too many […]

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The Solo show

When’s the last time you played with yourself? Merriam-Webster defines the verb play as, “a) to engage in sport or recreation: frolic; b) to have sexual relations; especially to have promiscuous or illicit sexual relations —usually used in the phrase play around.” This is almost the same definition Mom provided when I was 8 years, […]

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The Cuddle Chemical

Does everyone have hormones for love? “Absolutely,” said Michelle Alva, a sexy physical therapist who helps adults raise their oxytocin level. Michelle further explained that the highest oxytocin release actually occurs when a woman brings a new life into the world and during the bonding time between mother and child immediately following childbirth. Although men […]

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Fantasy Foreplay

What’s your favorite form of foreplay? “I love when a woman licks between my package and behind and I’m not ashamed to say it!” exclaimed an enthusiastic 33 year old attorney who had obviously indulged in several cocktails before we talked last Friday night.  Loudly, he made sure everyone knew that he also loves it […]

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Lover’s Day

What’s the sexiest day of the year? Not Valentine’s day!   Truth is, February 14th began as a day to honor two people who were murdered and it wasn’t for love.  A priest, Valentine of Rome and a bishop, Valentine of Terni, were both martyred in the third century and there was nothing romantic about it. […]

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Opening Act

What’s your new year’s resolution? If you’re human, it probably has something to do with improving relationships. Because relationships rule our lives. Relationships with money, work, friends, family, lovers. While most could stand to improve several of these relationships, the top priority is almost always romance. People in relationships want more understanding, more happiness, more […]

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