Fantasy Foreplay

What’s your favorite form of foreplay? “I love when a woman licks between my package and behind and I’m not ashamed to say it!” exclaimed an enthusiastic 33 year old attorney who had obviously indulged in several cocktails before we talked last Friday night.  Loudly, he made sure everyone knew that he also loves it when a woman puts a finger ever so slightly into his anus to tickle his prostate.  He urged me to print his name, age, occupation, and what he wanted in bed.  While I wanted to honor his request, everyone at Smith and...

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Lover’s Day

What’s the sexiest day of the year? Not Valentine’s day!   Truth is, February 14th began as a day to honor two people who were murdered and it wasn’t for love.  A priest, Valentine of Rome and a bishop, Valentine of Terni, were both martyred in the third century and there was nothing romantic about it. If they were traditional Catholics – not like those modern clergymen who keep getting themselves in trouble – we also know they died without having sex.   Not very sexy, right? Valentine’s Day first became known for romance...

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Opening Act

What’s your new year’s resolution? If you’re human, it probably has something to do with improving relationships. Because relationships rule our lives. Relationships with money, work, friends, family, lovers. While most could stand to improve several of these relationships, the top priority is almost always romance. People in relationships want more understanding, more happiness, more fulfilling sex. But this article isn’t about that. This is for my single friends who want to improve their lives by getting into a relationship that...

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Bare in Brickell

Who uses condoms in Miami? I’m asking because HIV/AIDS rates in this town are among the highest in the Nation, and no one knows exactly why. Are tourists liberating from latex in South Beach? Are undocumented immigrants baring it all for an American wedding? Are locals just loose? As an HIV/AIDS researcher with a doctorate and a handful of degrees from the best universities in America, I know how to conduct a scientific study to answer my question. But the research process has a way of forcing filters on subjective, yet meaningful...

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