Fantasy Foreplay
What’s your favorite form of foreplay? “I love when a woman licks between my package and behind and I’m not ashamed to say it!” exclaimed an enthusiastic 33 year old attorney who had obviously indulged in several cocktails before we talked last Friday night. Loudly, he made sure everyone knew that he also loves it when a woman puts a finger ever so slightly into his anus to tickle his prostate. He urged me to print his name, age, occupation, and what he wanted in bed. While I wanted to honor his request, everyone at Smith and...
more ...Lover’s Day
What’s the sexiest day of the year? Not Valentine’s day! Truth is, February 14th began as a day to honor two people who were murdered and it wasn’t for love. A priest, Valentine of Rome and a bishop, Valentine of Terni, were both martyred in the third century and there was nothing romantic about it. If they were traditional Catholics – not like those modern clergymen who keep getting themselves in trouble – we also know they died without having sex. Not very sexy, right? Valentine’s Day first became known for romance...
more ...Souped-up Sperm
Are you trying to get pregnant right now? To the dismay of my parents and in-laws, I’m not. Which is why sipping champagne is perfectly ok, even at 11:18 am. I wasn’t planning to start the party so early. But this morning, my mother-in-law, who gave birth to two boys, rattled my nerves when she said, “If you do it good this summer, you’ll get a girl.” Regardless of the season, I always try to do it good. But since I am not quite ready for a girl, or anyone, to start growing inside of me, I freaked out and popped a...
more ...Sleeping Solo
Should couples share a bed? Dear Dr. Sonjia, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. We are in totally in love and there is no doubt about our feelings for each other but we’ve run into a situation and I don’t know what to do anymore. When we first started dating, we would stay up all night talking. Of course, there was often copious amounts of red wine involved and a whole lot of sex too. But we eventually settled into being together and developed a routine where I would go to bed and then he would come to bed a...
more ...Erogenous Entertainment
How do you spice up your sex life? Anyone who’s been in a long-term relationship knows the bedroom gets boring. Some ladies linger in lingerie to seduce their special someone. Many men lure their lady by committing cash towards a great gift or romantic restaurant. X-rated movies have become an increasingly popular way to instigate intimate action. Others relish in role-playing while some couples swing into a saucier sex scene by including others in their intercourse. Mundane monogamy means a messy mishap, like infidelity, is likely to...
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