The Orgasm Epidemic

The O Epidemic Over 70% of sexually active women suffer from an orgasmic epidemic. Sadly, many of us are not having orgasms and don’t know the cure. So after our show on the Orgasm and Penis shot a few months back, I wasn’t surprised when my inbox was plagued with questions regarding the procedure’s capacity […]

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How to Plan a Great First Date

No plans, No panties! That’s what I tell men who complain about not getting enough sex from their lady. And that’s also what I tell women who wonder why they don’t want sex with their man anymore. You see, women love a man with a plan. And if you plan something special for us, well […]

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The Sex Conversation No One Wants to Have…

What happens to a woman after a night with Peyton Manning or Bill Cosby?  I’m talking about her sex life, her future love affairs, her future relationships. How does one establish a satisfying sexual relationship after they’ve been sexually violated? This is an important question, especially for a University professor like me because 1 out […]

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The Hook-Up: When your Ex Finds you on Facebook

What if this happened to you?  Ladies, imagine this. You’re dating a guy who’s been chasing you for a while. You recently started sleeping together and things are starting to get serious. You’ve met his family and have started thinking, ‘this could really work out’. You can imagine being with him for a long time. […]

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Sex Soulmates (Part 2), Don’t Be Scared!

Ever scared someone away?  Have you ever felt like you scared someone into never calling you again? I’m talking about a situation where you really like someone, tell them, and then they vanish into thin air. So disrespectful, right? And yet it happens every day. At the time, it may seem like a confusing mystery […]

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Sex Soulmates

Do Soulmates really exist?  “Is my Soulmate out there?” With V-day just around the corner, lots of people are thinking about soulmates. Am I with my soulmate? Was my ‘ex’ my real soulmate? Do soulmates even exist? And if so, does amazing sex indicate I’ve finally found the right one? I believe in soulmates. And […]

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SUCCESS should NOT mean SEXLESS

TGIF! Most professionals get excited about Friday because we’re about to get a break from the crazy pace of our careers. But all too often, folks who are successful at their jobs are too exhausted on the weekends to energize their love life. Seriously, after draining our brain at work all week, who has the […]

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Hypnosis and Sex Problems

Am I doing this right?  Guess what? We’re all scared Last V-day, my girlfriend really wanted to turn her husband on, so she decided to role-play. After perusing my ‘costumes’, she settled on the long red wig and I gave her some tips for getting into character.  But when it came time to perform, she […]

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First Date Ideas

First Dates Can Be Tricky.  My husband’s ex-girlfriend followed us on ours. Seriously. The night was warm, the top was down, and we were driving (flirting) through South Beach when his cell phone started going nuts. When we BOTH looked to see who couldn’t stop calling, a text from his ex flashed: “I’m behind you.” […]

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Orgasm Shot: Increase Orgasms and Penis Size

I made a resolution to have more sex.   Luckily, hubs was down to help, so I had no excuse to procrastinate. Honestly, my goal of thrice-weekly sex was hard as hell to keep, but it did improve our relationship. He bought more flowers, planned more dates, did more dishes, and gave more massages. Which […]

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