Date Nite Special

Date Nite Special Most people smile when they find out what I do for a living. When the giggling stops, their voice usually drops to a whisper while they ask for advice about their intimate situation. That’s when I smile, because it makes me giddy when people realize they have the power to improve their […]

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Talking About Sex with a Doctor

Talking About Sex with a Doctor Some sex problems need a medical doctor, not a sexologist. Which is why the University of Miami’s Chief of General Medicine joins us today to answer audience questions. What medical issues change the taste of ‘sexual fluids?’ Why do so many married women hate having sex? How do you […]

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Sex After Childbirth: Booty after Baby

Sex After Childbirth: Booty after Baby Childbirth changes everything. Especially sex. Last weekend, while my baby was supposed to be napping, my hubby attempted to seduce me. Just as things were heating up, our bedroom door slammed open, smashing the door knob into the opposing wall. Apparently an overzealous 3 year old opens doors with […]

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Sex Peer Pressure

Peer pressure impacts adults too. Especially, pressure to penetrate. “My friend often has sex immediately after meeting an eligible man and when it doesn’t work out, she’s left feeling devastated. But she does it over and over again.” A colleague disclosed this situation to me last week, and it’s something I hear about far too […]

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The Orgasm Epidemic

The O Epidemic Over 70% of sexually active women suffer from an orgasmic epidemic. Sadly, many of us are not having orgasms and don’t know the cure. So after our show on the Orgasm and Penis shot a few months back, I wasn’t surprised when my inbox was plagued with questions regarding the procedure’s capacity […]

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How to Plan a Great First Date

No plans, No panties! That’s what I tell men who complain about not getting enough sex from their lady. And that’s also what I tell women who wonder why they don’t want sex with their man anymore. You see, women love a man with a plan. And if you plan something special for us, well […]

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The Sex Conversation No One Wants to Have…

What happens to a woman after a night with Peyton Manning or Bill Cosby?  I’m talking about her sex life, her future love affairs, her future relationships. How does one establish a satisfying sexual relationship after they’ve been sexually violated? This is an important question, especially for a University professor like me because 1 out […]

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The Hook-Up: When your Ex Finds you on Facebook

What if this happened to you?  Ladies, imagine this. You’re dating a guy who’s been chasing you for a while. You recently started sleeping together and things are starting to get serious. You’ve met his family and have started thinking, ‘this could really work out’. You can imagine being with him for a long time. […]

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Sex Soulmates (Part 2), Don’t Be Scared!

Ever scared someone away?  Have you ever felt like you scared someone into never calling you again? I’m talking about a situation where you really like someone, tell them, and then they vanish into thin air. So disrespectful, right? And yet it happens every day. At the time, it may seem like a confusing mystery […]

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Sex Soulmates

Do Soulmates really exist?  “Is my Soulmate out there?” With V-day just around the corner, lots of people are thinking about soulmates. Am I with my soulmate? Was my ‘ex’ my real soulmate? Do soulmates even exist? And if so, does amazing sex indicate I’ve finally found the right one? I believe in soulmates. And […]

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