Fantasy Foreplay
What’s your favorite form of foreplay? “I love when a woman licks between my package and behind and I’m not ashamed to say it!” exclaimed an enthusiastic 33 year old attorney who had obviously indulged in several cocktails before we talked last Friday night. Loudly, he made sure everyone knew that he also loves it when a woman puts a finger ever so slightly into his anus to tickle his prostate. He urged me to print his name, age, occupation, and what he wanted in bed. While I wanted to honor his request, everyone at Smith and...
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Who wants sex without strings? “That’s an easy question,” said one of my good friends whose been in a (mostly) monogamous relationship for almost a decade. He continued, “Sex without strings is much easier. Sex doesn’t need to be intimate. Sometimes it’s just sex.” “I used to think I just wanted a friend with benefits. Light and fun.” said my forty-something girlfriend/therapist. “But when I finally found someone I wanted to have sex with, I couldn’t bring myself to do it if it wasn’t going to lead to something...
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What’s the sexiest day of the year? Not Valentine’s day! Truth is, February 14th began as a day to honor two people who were murdered and it wasn’t for love. A priest, Valentine of Rome and a bishop, Valentine of Terni, were both martyred in the third century and there was nothing romantic about it. If they were traditional Catholics – not like those modern clergymen who keep getting themselves in trouble – we also know they died without having sex. Not very sexy, right? Valentine’s Day first became known for romance...
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What’s your new year’s resolution? If you’re human, it probably has something to do with improving relationships. Because relationships rule our lives. Relationships with money, work, friends, family, lovers. While most could stand to improve several of these relationships, the top priority is almost always romance. People in relationships want more understanding, more happiness, more fulfilling sex. But this article isn’t about that. This is for my single friends who want to improve their lives by getting into a relationship that...
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Are you trying to get pregnant right now? To the dismay of my parents and in-laws, I’m not. Which is why sipping champagne is perfectly ok, even at 11:18 am. I wasn’t planning to start the party so early. But this morning, my mother-in-law, who gave birth to two boys, rattled my nerves when she said, “If you do it good this summer, you’ll get a girl.” Regardless of the season, I always try to do it good. But since I am not quite ready for a girl, or anyone, to start growing inside of me, I freaked out and popped a...
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