006 – Cunnilingus Conversation

Sex In South Beach Podcast

Want to take your foreplay to the next level? Dr. Sonjia breaks down the basics and keeps it real about cunnilingus in this latest episode.

Some of the things you’ll learn in this episode:

  • Many women have insecurity issues with receiving cunnilingus, so aren’t experiencing the ultimate pleasure it can bring. This is tragic!
  • Men do not complain about how a woman looks or smells or tastes down there.
  • Why is cunnilingus good for romantic relationships?
    • “Happy Wife. Happy Life”
  • The clitoris is the often the most sexually sensitive part of the human female. Easier to stimulate with the tongue.
  • Women who are sexually satisfied are much more likely to be nicer to you Mr. Man!
  • To all you “givers”: What can you do to make sure your cunnilingus capabilities are on track?
    • Commit to becoming the very best reader of her body: Breathing, movement, sounds.
    • Forget all your previous oral sex experiences. Every woman is different.
    • Clean yourself up – Wash your hands, trim your nails and make sure there’s no dirt in the cuticles.
    • Keep your beard trimmed and conditioned.
    • Consider getting in the shower with each other before the act.
    • Start Slow.
    • Get physically comfortable using pillows and trying different positions.
    • Experiment & ask questions.
    • Consider adding penetration using well lubricated fingers/toys.
    • Keep a steady pace.
    • Do not make her feel bad if it’s taking a long time for her to orgasm.
    • Stuck for ideas? Try spelling out the alphabet with your tongue.
    • Consider using some ice cubes / crushed ice and keep the ice moving. The hot/cold stimulation really adds to oral pleasure.
    • Use half an Altoid – The sensation that happens in the mouth – that same thing happens when they touch the private parts
  • Tips for the “receivers”
    • Keep clean and healthy!

 
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